There’s an old saying that goes, Birds of a feather flock together. In essence, that means you are associated by the company you keep. According to Stan Fine, PH.D., and author of the book Business Boot Camp for Women, the business relationships you develop should be the kind that have you reaching for the stars. If you and your business friends are constantly stumbling around and not making much progress maybe you need to change your associations.
Here are some more tips from Dr. Stan on maintaining a positive mental attitude about your business:
o Successful entrepreneurs keep their positive attitude by being careful about who they hang out with. There are always others who will readily tell you that “it can’t be done” and ” you’ll never make it”. Surround yourself with supporters. Good supporters will help you work on contingency plans and help you work around challenges without pounding you with discouragement. Avoid the “aint-it-awful” club.
o Every weekday afternoon in America, between the hours of 4:00pm and 7:00pm, there are people sitting around bars and lounges talking about how bad the world is. They bemoan the economy, the competition, the government, the company, the weather, blah, blah, blah. And they call this “HAPPY HOUR!” Don’t join the “pity party”.
o Successful entrepreneurs also develop their positive attitudes because they feed on progress. At the end of each day, instead of recounting all the difficulties and all that remains undone, write your accomplishments.
o End each day on a positive note by jotting down the three best things that happened this day.
o Often, there is no one around to acknowledge your achievements, especially those little ones that happen in the course of the day. By focusing a few minutes on your accomplishments, you give yourself a little pat on the back and recognize progress, even when small.
o Successful entrepreneurs take charge of the quality of their lives. A recent study showed only 4% of people enjoy both their work life and personal life. Many people have made financial objectives their sole concern and have paid a heavy price for their success – poor health, failed marriages, neglected friendships, no personal development in any area except business.
o Financial success, no matter how great, can never compensate for poor quality of life. A properly functioning business is supposed to be the servant of a full and satisfying life that includes good health, close and loving relationships, recreation, culture, and a powerful contribution to the community.
o The successful entrepreneur develops a personal life that is multi-dimensional. How? The solution is to take time away from your business. Free time makes you sharper. Free time provides the rejuvenation you need to restore your confidence and sense of well-being. You come back from time off with a new perspective, a higher energy level, increased creativity, and often, a breakthrough idea.
When things get busy or when business gets tough, it’s easy to let your attitude slip. Yet, this is when you most need your positive attitude. Your attitude influences your actions. When you really need positive action, remember that “it’s all in your head”. Enjoy the journey!
Posted by Beverly Mahone
Posted by Beverly Mahone
Posted by Beverly Mahone